Theory of Love

Theory of Love

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If you love someone, don’t you always and forever love them, unconditionally? Is that not the very definition of love? Or is love something that can also be instantaneous and momentary, like a flash of lightening, that can exist in one moment and cease to exist in another?

In that case, love would be a paradox, just like the quantum mechanics theory that electrons can exist at two places at once. This was illustrated in Schroedinger’s Cat experiment where Schroedinger hypothesized that a cat is both alive and dead because of the 50/50 potential of a poisonous toxin being released into the box where the cat is.

Relationships have a 50/50 chance of working out, in that they either work out or they don’t, so if you compare that to the cat experiment, then love  both exists and does not exist at the same time. Then when someone ‘stops’ loving you, you can blame it on quantum mechanics because you can argue that love is a paradox, so whether it does or doesn’t work out, who cares?

This means that, mathematically, if a relationship doesn’t work out, it wasn’t going to in the first place because the potential for it working out never existed if it ends. So there is nothing to feel badly about. And at the end of the day, if you love yourself, then who cares about the rest? When you love yourself, nobody can ever take that away from you. And it’s a relationship that’s bound to work out; there’s no 50/50 chance that it  won’t.

So there’s no risk! There’s no heartbreak. It’s a stable relationship that you can count on to be there for you no matter what. How nice! Plus, you’ll become the best version of yourself. And, you would do anything for someone you truly love. So why not truly love yourself, the one person who will always be there for you no matter what?

And that’s my theory about love.

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